Screening is necessary for all new friends. I use Swiss-based protonmail, and if you do the same it will keep our correspondence entirely confidential.
Valid photo ID
A copy of your passport or driver’s license. The photo must be clearly visible, and your ID must be valid.
If we are meeting in the US, please include two IDs in your message. When meeting, please leave one of your IDs on the bathroom counter. The ID I have on file must match the one in person.
Your references must be from two reputable and independent companions who are still active. Include their name, email, website, and the approximate date that you met. Please note that references may take longer compared to other forms of screening.
Send me a message from your work email (a discreet email address can be sent to you if you wish). In your initial message, please include a link to your company and LinkedIn profile. Your work email must be clearly associated with your place of employment.
Leave No Trace
Those with sincere privacy concerns may send their screening information to an anonymous PO box in London, England. Include a copy of your ID or your references, and a phone number or email in your letter. I will then get back to you using a number or email not associated with my work name. And voilà, from there on we can begin planning our date! Don’t worry about me calling you unexpectedly: I will never make a phone call unless we agreed to have a chat.